• Nazaiya •: Staying Positive.

Hello, Assalamualaikum.

Typically, OMG IT'S BEEN A LONGGG WHILE!! It's already 14th March hahaha. ~~And it's White Day today!!~~

Anyways, here I am after months. Truthfully, March has been a pain. Oh look, it's still March! Expect more shit because yes I think there would be more shitty happenings. I'm not talking about just my life, but your life as well. I know everyone's facing a hard time now, thus, this post happens! I just thought that at least someone needs a little something to keep them going. Even if only for a little bit, it'll make me happy. Really. You see, there are ways around these things according to my own experience.

Get support. From family, friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, even strangers on the net. I'm not kidding, those people on Twitter are really friendly. I'm not sure about other people but usually there's always at least a virtual hug when you need it! In my case, family is important, but I prefer telling my friends. I have #GengTengah, the best gheis I could ever need. And close friends in class and in next class, also people on Twitter (especially my baby Min <3) so alhamdulillah. If you don't have anyone, I'm always here. I don't ask you to tell you your problems, but I can give you that little support you'll need! Don't worry.

Care for others. Well, I know, when your head's so clouded with thought, it's almost impossible to even think of other people. But you see, if you want people to care for you when you're sad, you have to be there for them when they're sad as well. Maybe you can't always be there for them, but once in a while, tweeting them a 'stay strong!!' really makes a difference.

Get your mind off things. The best way to do this is to just be lost in your own world! Do whatever you like. Sleep, reading, hearing your music (no matter what genre it is), writing or just by simply watching TV. Do something to get your mind off your shit load of works or tasks and relax, take your time. Those shit ain't gonna work if your mind clatters, dear! I won't recommend anything for now because everyone has different ways on things.

Pray. Needless to say, this is important. Solat, berdoa, berzikir, ambil wuduk to calm yourself. Islam is a beautiful religion. When you're in the right path, mendekatkan diri dengan Allah, everything will go well insyaAllah. Don't forget to always remind yourself that everything happens for a reason. And most importantly, Allah tests you because He loves you :)

Keep telling yourself that YOU'RE STRONG! "I'm strong. I'm strong. I can get through this, I just have to do my best". Say it. Not whisper it in your heart, but say it. Your mind would understand this shit, and your whole body would try its best to fulfill its task. You can't give up, not now. Being this far, now, giving up? Nope, you don't have a choice, you have to keep going strong!

Think of the positive possibilities. For instance, when you finish that freaking homework, you'll have more time to sleep! Or maybe to even watch your Running Man! Or stalk your crush, or whatever. Being over-confident is a different thing, and being positive is another, got it?

I know, who am I to say all this things when I mostly get emotional, right? Yea, we will have the time when we feel really slumped, and feel like you're gonna die. Trust me when I say, that while I'm typing this very post, I'm having a pretty bad night. It annoys me so much, but I'm putting my earphones in and shutting off the world. So you see, no matter how shitty it gets, you just have to endure it. Life is cruel, but if it's not cruel enough, then you wouldn't have tried so hard right? Life teach lessons, so learn from them. There will always be a way.

It wasn't my intention to act like I know it all, I'm just sharing what I know. Different people, different ways. Always remember that you don't have to carry all those shitty burden yourself.
Here, have a positive penguin!